Well, it's probably because that section is forbidden as compared to our vaginas (considering our modern sexual mentality). And you feel that because you're violating some sort of unwritten moral code, you have somehow become the Robin Hood of our bodies.
So if you're the lucky fella who gets to deflower our back doors, then that makes you our first sort of. And as many men have ceaselessly informed me, it's just so much tighter back there . My goodness, you'd think that you guys were inserting your penises into a train tunnel and not a vagina, the way you make it sound.
Although many women have yet to feel comfortable letting you introduce the new and improved "doggy style" to them, many have already begun to delve into the kinky world of anal sex. So what do women hate aboutanal sex, or better yet, what do they love about it? Well gather round, gentlemen, because I'm about to focus in on a somewhat touchy (feely) subject.
GOOD AS* NEW
Believe it or not, anal sex can be very pleasurable for women because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and the sexual nerves are actually closer on that side, which makes the sensation unique, stronger and quite possibly orgasmic .
Lots of women think that anal sex is taboo and something only done in those "pizza guy" porn flicks. But in today's society of teen pregnancy, group sex, threesomes, and one-night stands, it's quite evident that anything goes... even rear-ending in the bedroom.
There is a popular saying that women try anal sex twice: once to see how it is and the second time to see if it was really that bad.
Now before I begin, be aware that the things that women hate about anal sex, may also be things that women like about it. So if you see the same thing mentioned in both sections, remember; we're women, and because we menstruate, we have a right to be indecisive.
DON"T BE AN AS* ABOUT IT
The following is what many women dislike (to say the least) about the anal aspect of things.
During anal sex, women virtually hand their sexual power over to their partners. So you guys have the ability to prevent a woman's orgasms. And since penetration usually occurs from behind, you enter her sexually when she can't see you. Your penis doesn't have to come into contact with their sexual organs (vagina and all that good stuff), which ultimately leaves her sexual satisfaction in your hands (or penis as the case may be).
You can cause serious damage
You guys can hurt women terribly when it comes to the anal aperture if you're not careful. We understand that by allowing you to enter via our other sacred opening, you feel this overwhelming need to dominate. But keep in mind that if you're not wary and penetrate a woman when she's not quite relaxed, you may end up finding Mr. Poopoo on the end of Mr. Willy, so be sensitive.
A guy once told me, "So what? It hurts us too because it's so tight." Yeah, but whereas you're squeezing your skin-covered member into what feels like a solid canoli, we're letting you penetrate a portal that only disposes of waste. Most women aren't exactly thrilled at the prospect of having something that feels like a solid 8x13 kielbasa shoved into an area that only shares gifts with the toilet bowl.
We're not sure what you're doing back there and although we want it (after all, we're letting you get to it), our thoughts are filled with the whole pain and suffering aspect of it all.
It's not a vagina; it doesn't secrete fluid
Unless your penis is soaked with the juice from her vagina, I suggest you use lubricant -- and lots of it -- otherwise, she'll jump up to the ceiling and dig her nails into the jip rock. No woman wants an insensitive man whose motives are selfishly induced.
Now on to the good stuff...
AS* WILLING AS* COULD BE
Now I can finally let you in on all that women love about anal sex.
Believe it or not, women are just as excited as you to be venturing into the anal aspect of sex. Yes, they may be apprehensive, but if you have all the right moves, you'll be getting two holes in one (for all you golf buffs) for as long as she's your woman. She may even end up preferring it from behind.
Finding fingers first
A caring guy starts slowly with his finger until his woman feels comfortable. Once she feels at ease with that, he'll apply plenty of lube and a condom when he ultimately penetrates her.
Rubbing the cheeks
If there's anything that can help women relax and feel at ease, it's when a man rubs their butt cheeks softly, spreading them and then squeezing them together. Don't just head for the hole and disregard the rest of her body; it's there for the taking... so take it.
Massaging her back, holding her waist
Like I said before, giving the rest of her body sincere attention while penetrating her will work to both your advantage. Her rectal muscles will relax so that you could enter her more easily, and you'll enjoy the tight-yet-fitting entry, as well as her smooth skin.
Pain is sometimes pleasurable
In all honesty, why do you think women even let you near their behind if they know it's going to hurt? Because you've been begging? Because she thinks that her vagina's as loose as a porn star trying to set a record for the most partners in one night? No, it's because she wants to know how it feels too. She knows that pain is inevitable, but that's part of the thrill of it all.
Source : AskMen